The Day After

Sitting here in a moment of ultimate personal joy and unthinkable global sadness it is hard for me to do much today. So much emotion. And I usually do emotion well.

The marriage of my son to the woman of all our dreams this weekend was one of the highest highs a parent can experience. The love in the room, the joining of two strong supportive families, the beautiful traditions and all the people who mean so much to all of us… THIS. This is what makes life so rich.

And yet we cannot ignore the significance of this date. And the current world situation.

I was inspired to write this by a beautiful, strong young woman I met this weekend. She is an American who lives in Tel Aviv. And I am so very honored to have met her and have our families joined. She flew out of Israel for this wedding, luckily in a sliver of time when she could. I asked her how she was doing. Her answer to me was this: we are at a Jewish simcha. This is what it is all about. This is what makes us exist. Got to love the Israeli mindset and Jewish outlook on life.

The Jewish wedding ceremony, the signing of the Katubah, the breaking of the glass, the seven blessings, the Hora… every one of those precious moments that always bring us closer to our culture and faith, had such a heightened significance at this time. Sitting in the middle of the two most sacred holidays of the year was that much more meaningful.

We are Jews.

We are those Jews. The ones that stand strong and proud, that love and care deeply for all humankind, and will never let anyone shake that.

There is no room for hate in a room filled with that much love.

May all who are suffering today feel the power of our heritage. May we stand tall and proud and never tolerate the evil and propaganda that threaten our existence. May those who are defending our freedoms stay safe and continue the job of ridding the world of this poison. May we NEVER forget. And let us say… Amen.

Am Yisrael Chai.

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4 responses to “The Day After

  1. Linda Bernard's avatar Linda Bernard

    Amy, I always love reading these very special stories you write about. This one was especially meaningful. Congratulations on this beautiful union❤️

  2. Valerie's avatar Valerie

    Congratulations on this time of celebration, I am so happy for you and your family and thank you for your insight. No family deserves happiness more as you spread love and understanding on the daily. I don’t have the same faith or traditions as your family but they are so close, I wish people could appreciate how alike we are and how much we can learn from our differences. I have the upmost respect and offer my solidarity to you and yours always. If it were not you and my friends of the heart, it could easily be me and mine. Hold strong and steady. I stand with you and for you always. You are someone I have so much respect and love for. Thank you for always being a master of words that reach far beyond! I hear you and will spread the sentiment. Enjoy this day, this milestone, and know that there are countless wishes of abundance and joy that follow you everywhere you go in this life! Mazel Tov❤️

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