Time to Cry Tuesday – Lifelong Friends


I collect people.

Seriously. I have people in my life for decades. I always thought this was common, as my husband does too, but I have come to realize that most people are not fortunate enough to have friends in their lives that they have known since they were young.

Me? I still have my best friends from 7th grade. Three of them. I was late to the party as they have known each other since kindergarten. They are the place I go when the world is too much. Or when I want to laugh to the point of tears.

I can be 16 with them, when being 16 is completely out of the question because 4 of our collective 8 kids is older than that already. They will never tell me what I want to hear, but they will surely tell me what I need to.

There are code words and phrases that we share like a secret language – or twinspeak. Our own intimictionary of vocab that would have an outsider shaking their head trying to figure out what we are talking about.

Months can go by with little contact, no more than a passing “I would freak but i don’t have time” kind of conversation. But still our love for each other is undying.

The decades pass. We fall, we get up, we live to the point of tears and then we trudge on thinking that if we have to live one more day of this crazy life we will surely scream. Then we stop and spend some precious time together. And laugh so hard we forgot that was possible. 

That is when I realize I am the luckiest person on earth. Not one but three! Each of whom would drop everything at a moment’s notice to be THERE. Wherever and whatever THERE is. And believe me, THERE wears many costumes.

Three words for you girls:

Love. Love. Love.

(and no Ali, we did not have any fun without you this weekend ; )

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Filed under friendship, relationships, teenagers, Uncategorized, women

3 responses to “Time to Cry Tuesday – Lifelong Friends

  1. Ivy Mindlin

    It makes all of you very special. I am so fortunate to have the same thing. Friends since I’m 5. And friends like you…Z it’s been close to 25 years. Oh how time flies.

  2. Ronni

    Are you kidding me? I will never get myself back together!
    This day is now over…
    Is that where the 3 Loves come from???

  3. Pingback: Are We Having Fun Yet? « i could cry but i don’t have time

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