For the first time in 22 years, I will be spending Mother’s Day without at least one of my kids. It is so very weird to write that… I don’t even know what to do with it. When they were little I used to ask for the morning to myself to plant flowers. Be careful what you wish for.
Since we cannot be together till next weekend I will do a little reflecting on what it has meant to me to be a mother. I was trained by the master… so a great big fat Happy Mother’s Day to my mom and of course to my mother-in-law as well.
Since I cannot be with my kids I decided to send them a random list of mom thoughts so that I feel like they are here. When they wake up (around 2PM) you will probably hear a collective ‘Awwww, mom’ from the Midwest.
1. Just when you both started to learn how to sleep late, I lost the ability to do so. So when I make too much noise in the morning when you are home, don’t think it is by accident. I do take more than a little bit of pleasure in the payback.
2. Although the house is very much in order when you are not here, I would trade that for a hallway full of big sneakers and a kitchen full of bakers in a heartbeat.
3. A reminder that as your mother I feel obliged to tell you that although you are sure it is, Funfetti is NOT a flavor.
4. No, you may never consider calling the dog mommy (even when Daddy tells you it is ok – actually, especially at that time)
5. Danny, this may be hard to believe but I would sort of kill to be on the soccer field at 8:00 tomorrow, even if it is in Ronkonkoma. After so many years of complaining that there was no respect for family time by the soccer league, I realize that WAS family time!
6. Jana, don’t ever stop taking pictures on your phone and sending them to me. Even when you were on the other side of the world you always made me feel like I was right there with you.
7. Always remember when you see one of THOSE sunsets to say the words ‘sky blue pink’ to yourself and know that no matter where I am… I am with you.
8. Remember that nothing is ever too bad that you can’t tell me and no matter how much trouble you get into, chances are you will have a better shot of getting out if you call me first (with the help of Alan, of course, if it’s really bad).
9. If you think the milk is spoiled… it is. And don’t ask someone else to taste it, that’s mean.
10. I hope you both know that the single best thing I have done in my life was to become a mother. And that if I were given the chance to write down the qualities that I hoped my kids would have grown up to possess, it could never match the people you have become. I love you both so much it hurts.
Happy Mother’s Day to all!
7 responses to “Happy Mother’s Day”
#7 is so, so sweet. Happy Mother’s Day! I hope it’s joyous, even with your kids far away.
Thanks Deborah. I loved your post today too. Happy Mother’s Day to you.
Thanks! It’s already happy so far, and I’ve only gotten to the “listening to my guys snore” part 😀
Amy, Amy, Amy…. you have me crying on Mothers Day. Happy Mothers Day to my wonderful friend & great mom!
Back at ya, Dani (the mom, not Danny the boy) hope you enjoy the day with Nana of brownies fame.
How sweet! PS: I have lots of big sneakers in the hall & am happy to send some up your way.
This is so beautiful! Thank you. Happy Mother’s Day!