This has never been a political place, and has certainly not been a very active one for a while. But it is where ‘I go’. And today, I had to ‘go’ somewhere. Time to Cry, indeed.
Speaking out. This week’s mantra. All ‘sides’.
Sides? Really?! Now there are sides to humanity? To dignity? To civil rights? To driving down the road with your child in the back seat? To waking up every day and doing your job protecting your community?
Are there systemic issues? Hell, yeh. Should we push for a drastic overhaul of our broken system that includes real oversight, investigation and punishment? Both ‘sides’. Double hell, yeh. Do we have issues with guns… triple hell, yeh. Are all cops evil? Come on, you don’t believe that any more than you believe that all people of color are criminals. Right?
Tell me right, ok? Make me believe it. Please, come out of the woodwork and tell me that as Americans we can stop taking sides. Tell me that I am not delusional. Tell me that from the wreckage of all this violence we can create change. Not slogans and hashtags. Not turning your profile picture black OR blue. Turn it both. Black and blue… bruised and hurting. That is what we are all feeling.
These are the things I have read today that moved me after a sleepless night. Let them move you. Let’s all turn down the volume and turn up the idea of what being an American should mean. And what our responsibilities are.
- There are no sides. Please don’t take one. Grieve for loss of life, the broken system and violence begetting violence. But don’t take sides.
- You know the hardest part of having a conversation surrounding police shootings in America? It always feels like in America… if you take a stand for something, you automatically are against something else. It’s such a strange world to be in. You shouldn’t have to choose between the police and the citizens that they are sworn to protect. (Trevor Noah)
- Things have not changed, the access to real time video has.
- An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind. (thank you, Dawn)
- I’m sorry, I must have set my alarm for 1968 (thank you, Marc)
- We need to stop thinking hashtags are going to fix the problem and get away from our computers and out into our communities to work together to figure out how to stop this reality we find ourselves in. (C.C. Chapman)
Speaking out is great. But please choose your words wisely. And act upon them. Effectively. Sensibly. And with liberty and justice for ALL.
Amen. Namaste. Shalom. Salaam.
4 responses to “On Speaking Out”
Thank you for this post. Last night, while listening to Michelle Obama’s speech, I wrote down, “when they go low, we go high,” and thought to myself: now those are words to live by. Although I’m sure it’s been #hashtaggedtodeathrightnow.
I actually tweeted that same line!